5 Things You Can Say to Grieving Families at Funeral Homes

Posted on December 24, 2018 by Kyle Struempf under Funeral Home
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There are many people who struggle to find the right words to say when they’re standing in front of grieving families at Smyrna, GA funeral homes. They don’t know what they can possibly say to the families to bring them a sense of peace and comfort. It can be hard to come up with something on the spot to make someone who is deep in mourning feel better. And far too often, they end up blurting out something like, “At least your loved one is in a better place now!” that doesn’t really help the situation.  

With that in mind, you should come up with something you’re going to say to someone who is grieving before you arrive at a funeral home for a funeral service. It’ll allow you to say the right words in the moment rather than stammering over your words. Here are 5 things you can say to a person who just lost a loved one.  

“I was so sorry to hear about your loss.” 

Sometimes, the best thing you can do when trying to console someone suffering from the loss of a loved one is simply express how sorry you feel for them. You don’t have to go too overboard with it. But you can let them know that you were grief-stricken when you first heard the news about their loved one’s passing, just like they were. It’ll help you form a bond with them and let them know they’re not alone.  

“You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.” 

Those dealing with a death in the family and the planning of funeral services in Smyrna, GA often appreciate others sending prayers their way. Let a grieving family know that they’re in your prayers at all times and that you’re thinking about them and what they’re going through. That will help promote healing and show them they’re not alone during their dark days.  

“I remember when…” 

There’s a good chance that you can share at least one story about the deceased with their family that they haven’t heard before. Take the opportunity to lighten the mood by sharing a story that they’ll appreciate. They’ll be happy to step out of the present for a moment to go down memory lane with you.  

“Your loved one was such an amazing person.” 

If you don’t have a personal memory to share with a grieving family, don’t worry! Simply telling the family how amazing the deceased person was to you is more than enough. It’ll remind the family of how much people loved their loved one.  

“I am here for you if you need anything at all.” 

Do more than just say a few words to a grieving family and move on. Instead, offer to be there for them should they need anything in the coming days and weeks. They probably won’t take you up on your offer. But if they do, you’ll be glad that you lent your support. You’ll be able to help them out in whatever way you can.  

Davis-Struempf Funeral Home & Crematory is always here for grieving families and will work to make their lives a little easier during their tough times. We can help plan funerals in Smyrna, GA and provide grief counseling as well. Give us a call at (770) 944-2900 today or come see what we have to offer at 1975 E West Connector, Austell, GA 30106.